The Secret Explained !

The movie “The Secret”, everybody knows it, few understand it, lots think it’s bullshit, I think it has a good message in it, but the way it’s expressed is stupid, but I always tend to skip the bullshit and success stories (which actually are meant to give you an impulse, to trigger your emotions, which should be a good thing) and get the main idea.

The main idea is that everything happens in our mind, don’t take the law of attraction too god damn literally.

Example:

– if you ask a person out and she doesn’t want to go out right then, she wants to lazy around at home and tells you to let it for some other time, if you get mad you will create a tensed situation or a fight, which will eventually kill the chance to see that person some other time.

Instead you can apply the secret rule, and be ok with it and do some other thing and not think about why she didn’t want to get out, as you will attract bad thoughts and you will somehow let the thoughts out and ruin it all.

Next time maybe you’re lucky and you will go out and have fun. Don’t kill the possibility with anger, because you only have to lose.

(Now if the person isn’t that eager to see you and prefers to lazy around at home, then you have some other problem, which the secret can’t help you).

– if you want to go at a certain show and you don’t have a ticket and all are already sold, instead of quitting or being sad and telling everybody how it sucks that you can’t go to that show that you always wanted to go, apply the secret rule and believe stupidly that you will 100% go to that show, and try to find tickets, on internet, from friends, and so on, and the chances are greater to find a ticket than if you just stood there sad pitting yourself.

(This is plain math: there are between 5 000 – 50 000 tickets available, from which a big part of tickets were bought online, people buying online are more willing to give up than the ones who go in person to buy a ticket, from all these tickets at least 1% are going to sell their tickets, there are at least 4 times the number of people wanting tickets than the resold tickets, 3/4 from these people don’t believe they will find tickets and will be ok with it, the other 1/4 will find tickets, if not with days before the show, directly at the show, or somehow get in fraudulently, but they will see the god damn show, because they applied the secret rule. Be in that 1/4!)

This is it about The Secret. The Secret solves only a part of your problems, there are lots of things you should consider in order to be a mature happy person, like: studying (not just school, any type of study, the learning resources are unlimited), risking, never giving up, being emphatic, exposing yourself to increase the chances of being the right person at the right time, not being lazy, improve your social skills, take care of yourself and appreciating yourself, being thankful for what you already have, and so on. Yet applying all these other things and failing to apply one or the other might not be enough for your happiness. The Secret is found in every other thing that can help you become happy and using The Secret will bring you all those things I just enumerated, this is why they make such a big deal out of it.

(Kids don’t have this problem, they always apply the secret, we somehow lose this ability when we get older)

Go on, pursuit your happiness!

 

 

ps: The Secret can be applied also when something bad happens, it’s up to you to perceive it bad and be sad about it and lose all the opportunities that might arrive and you can’t see them because you’re too busy being sad, or just acknowledge it, if you can do something about it, do, if you can’t, don’t try.

No matter how bad a thing is, you have to recover, you have no choice.

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